I broke up with someone about two months ago. But he constantly calls, comes by and is now bothering my friends. What do I do?

Help, Stalker Troubles, Winston-Salem, N.C.
Dear Stalker Troubles,
First, try plan A. Clearly say, "I don’t want anything to do with you!" Second, insist that he stop calling, coming by or bothering your friends. Third, be tough, stern and aggressive, even if it's not your nature. If this fails, then go to plan B. First, go to his work and publicly embarrass him by making a big scene! Second, call his friends and family and tell them to stop him or you’ll see them in court. Also, think restraining order. Lastly, take a vacation. Sipping a martini on a beach, sweetie, is much healthier than sitting around waiting for trouble.

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